Videographers: A Must Have
Capturing the Unscripted Moments
Many – most- of my couples prioritize photography for their wedding days and I fully support this decision, however I find that videography often gets pushed off as a priority as many couples opt instead to see where budget lands before making a last minute decision to add video to their wedding day. While photos are essential keepsakes, I find that photo and video are a must-have team, working together to capture the vital story of your wedding day.
Think about the sound of your partner’s voice as they say, “I do,” or the joyful cheers as you walk down the aisle together for the first time. Think about the toast a beloved grandparent gave or the laughter from special guests. This audio and these living memories become more valuable over time. And these moments, complete with the emotions in motion, are the ones you’ll treasure forever.
I hear it all the time – we don’t want a videographer who is going to have a camera in our faces all night. Never fear – a good wedding videographer knows how to quietly capture candid scenes—your parents’ proud smiles, the tear-filled eyes of your best friend, or your grandparents swaying on the dance floor. It’s these spontaneous, unscripted moments that often hold the most meaning. Having them preserved on film allows you to relive them time and time again, experiencing the emotions with fresh eyes each time you watch.
The Power of Memory: Keeping Loved Ones Close
Weddings are often a rare opportunity to gather family and friends in one place. Some of these guests—older relatives or distant friends—might not always be present in your life. A wedding video preserves their presence in a way that a still image cannot. Years down the line, when life changes and loved ones are no longer around, being able to see their faces, hear their voices, and witness their joy can be profoundly comforting.
A video captures more than just the event—it records the people who make your day meaningful. Whether it’s your mom’s proud speech, your sibling’s laughter, or your partner’s happy tears, a video becomes a time capsule of relationships and emotions. Long after the wedding has passed, you’ll have a tangible piece of your loved ones’ spirit and presence that you can revisit whenever you need.
Reliving the Day You Missed
The truth is, your wedding day will go by in a blur. Amid the excitement, you may not fully experience every moment. A videographer ensures that nothing is missed—capturing interactions and moments you may not have witnessed in the whirlwind of the day. That tear your father wiped away during the ceremony, the funny conversation your best friends shared before the reception, or the loving glance exchanged between your grandparents—these moments become part of the story you’ll discover for the first time when watching your wedding video.
A Gift to Your Future Self
Beyond reliving the joy of the day, your wedding video becomes a timeless gift to your future self. Years from now, you can look back on it not just as a record of the event but as a reminder of how much love surrounded you on that day. Watching your wedding video together on anniversaries or sharing it with children or grandchildren adds even more layers of meaning.
Hiring a wedding videographer is an investment in the memories and emotions of your special day. While the flowers will wilt, and the decorations will be taken down, the emotions captured on film will remain vibrant and real. A wedding video isn’t just a luxury—it’s a way of preserving the heart of your wedding day, so that the people, the love, and the joy can be with you always, no matter how much time passes.
Here are our absolute favorite videographers should you choose to add this element to your own wedding day:
Huxley Films: Based in MA, Huxley Films is lead by Jason McCutchen and Jared Haskell – two of my absolute favorite guys in the wedding world. Huxley focuses on creating luxury wedding films worldwide with a boutique approach. They aim to capture weddings in a way that reflects both the couple’s style and the event’s elegance, producing timeless films that engage the senses and celebrate the essence of the day.
Harrison Films: Based in DC, Harrison Films specializes in destination wedding videography with an artful, story-driven style. Led by the husband-and-wife duo Deanna and Grant Harrison, the team emphasizes capturing authentic moments while staying unobtrusive. Their films blend cinematic storytelling with personal touches, ensuring that each wedding video reflects the couple’s unique journey and emotions.
La Reve Films: Le Rêve Films is led by the husband-and-wife team Lindsey and Cherish Conklin. They are known for their vibrant, cinematic style and storytelling that resonates with emotion. Based in California, Le Rêve specializes in both local and international luxury weddings, offering services like drone footage and multi-location shoots. Their films emphasize capturing the joy and intimacy of each celebration, turning wedding memories into cherished visual narratives.
Willow Tree Films: Willow Tree Films specializes in creating cinematic wedding films that emphasize emotion, connection, and movement. Known for capturing luxury weddings across New England and beyond, their style focuses on telling love stories with raw and authentic emotion. Led by Greg Fisher, the team has earned accolades for their responsive, seamless service and ability to encapsulate meaningful, fleeting moments.
Katherine Frizzell Films: Based in Portland, Oregon, Katherine’s approach is deeply rooted in preserving cherished memories through films that feature home movies, vintage family photos, and generational wedding footage. Her style is intimate and reflective, aiming to bring treasured moments to life through thoughtful editing and emotional storytelling.
